Graham English
Songwriter, Recording Artist, and Blogging Musician
Songwriter, Recording Artist, and Blogging Musician
Sleight of Mouth: Meta - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Talk about the belief as a thing. Step outside of the belief and talk about it.
Purpose: Help [...]
New monkey species is more unique than thought:
WASHINGTON (Reuters) - A new species of monkey identified in Tanzania’s highlands last year is an even more remarkable find than thought — it is a new genus of animal, scientists said on Thursday.
“Unique” means one of a kind. Something can’t be “more unique.”
Common Errors in English
Sleight of Mouth: Criteria Utilization - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, ask for permission and use the following, rather involved, Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
This integrates several Sleight of Mouth patterns.
A states: “I want [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Change Frame - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “What do I want to pay attention to? What do I want to include/exclude?”
Purpose: [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Redefine - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “What/What else can this mean?”
Purpose: Changing the meaning of an event or behavior changes our [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Switch Referential Index - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “For whom is this not true?”
Purpose: Another person is often a useful source [...]
Day of Integration - Today keep in mind the NLP presupposition, Anything can be accomplished when we break the task down into small enough chunks. How can language patterns be one tool that can assist you in chunking down?
Self Tasking - How can you challenge yourself today to grow in the area of language patterns?
Recap:
Day 36: Sleight of Mouth: Model of the World: Awareness or Description Predicates - Questioning Tonal Shift
Day 37: Sleight of Mouth: Prior Cause
Day 38: Sleight of Mouth: Consequences
Day 39: Sleight of Mouth: Intent
Day 40: Sleight of Mouth: Counter-Example
Sleight of Mouth: Counter-Example - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “When is this not true?”
Purpose: Finding exceptions to limiting beliefs creates a doorway to a [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Intent - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “What was intended?”
Purpose: Shifting from negative behaviors to a positive intent creates agreement and appreciation [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Consequences - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “What happens afterward, as a result?”
Purpose: This expands the frame in the other direction from [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Prior Cause - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth pattern and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
Key Question: “What happened earlier that caused this?”
Purpose: Bringing an earlier cause into the picture can [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Model of the World - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth patterns and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
The purpose of the Model of the World pattern is to “loosen” beliefs. This [...]
Day of Integration - Today keep in mind the NLP presupposition, People already have all the resources they need. How can you use language patterns to integrate appropriate resources when they are needed?
Self Tasking - How can you challenge yourself today to grow in the area of language patterns?
Recap:
Day 29: Presuppositional Forms: Negative Questions
Day 30: Presuppositional Forms: Rhetorical Question
Day 31: Presuppositional Forms: Spurious “Not”
Day 32: Sleight of Mouth: Model of the World: Unreality Predicates - Self/Other
Day 33: Sleight of Mouth: Model of the World: Tonal Emphasis - [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Model of the World - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth patterns and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
The purpose of the Model of the World pattern is to “loosen” beliefs. This [...]
Sleight of Mouth: Model of the World - Today, when someone states a limiting belief, use the following Sleight of Mouth patterns and notice if their experience of the limiting belief shifts. Be sure to maintain rapport as you deliver the pattern.
The purpose of the Model of the World pattern is to “loosen” beliefs. This [...]
I found a great article on the power of words. Since I’m currently blogging a series on advanced language patterns, it’s very appropriate.
Talk all you want to, Flores says, but if you want to act powerfully, you need to master “speech acts”: language rituals that build trust between colleagues and customers, word practices that open [...]
Presuppositional Forms: Spurious “Not” - Today, when someone presents a simple outcome or limitation (using few enough words that it can be presupposed in a longer sentence. Ex. “being confident” or “making more money”), use the following presuppositional form to presuppose the outcome or to change the limitation into a resource.
Spurious “Not”:
“I wonder if you’re [...]
Presuppositional Forms: Rhetorical Question - Today, when someone presents a simple outcome or limitation (using few enough words that it can be presupposed in a longer sentence. Ex. “being confident” or “making more money”), use the following presuppositional form to presuppose the outcome or to change the limitation into a resource.
Rhetorical Question:
“What good does it [...]
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